What is the difference between the weekend retreat and the ten-week program?

The weekend retreats offer most of the same components as the ten-week programs. Individual counseling before and after the program is not offered in the retreat; however, we would be willing to meet with you individually before or after the weekend. The other difference between the two programs is that the weekend is a bit more condensed than the ten-week program. Time is always made available for questions. The materials for the retreat are exactly the same as the ten-week program to allow you to have the exact same resources.  

Can I participate in only one of the two days of the weekend retreat?

Unless you have an emergency, we ask that you participate in both days to get the full benefit of the program. The cost does include both days and will not be separated.

What is your cancellation policy?

Full refunds less a $50 registration fee will be made if notice of cancellation is received  seven days prior to retreat. Cancellations received less than seven days but more than 48 hours before the retreat will be subject to a half-price fee and cancellations less than 48 hours or without notice are subject to the full retreat fee.

Must partners participate in the ten week program?

Partners are invited to attend three of the ten sessions, but this participation is optional. However, there is great benefit in involvement. Not only do they benefit from techniques taught, such as relaxation methods and the couples' paired listening exercise, but we also provide one support group session designed specifically for the partners. In addition, they gain key insight to what their partner is really going through.

Should I come alone or with my partner to the weekend retreat?

Partners are encouraged to participate so that they may be fully integrated into the program.  They too learn the relaxation-response based exercises and various strategies to cope with the challenges of infertility.  They often find they gain a greater understanding of their reactions to these challenges and progress towards greater closeness with their partner.

What happens if I need to miss one of the ten week  sessions?

Most people need to miss a session or two since ten weeks is a long stretch of time. We ask that you not miss more than two. At the first session, a buddy is assigned to you. This person is there not only to support you emotionally during the program should you need it, but also to take notes for you should you need to miss a session. The group leaders are also there to answer any questions. In addition, you receive materials at the beginning of the program which provide enough background information that you can catch up easily by perusing them.

How is payment handled?

We do require full payment to secure your registration for the program.  Registrations should be submitted as soon as possible as enrolment is limited. Please click here to go to online Registration Form.

You can make your payment using paypal or by sending a personal cheque made out to:

Louise Kirkhope
Conceivable Options
#107 – 335 Wesley Street
Nanaimo, BC    V9R 2T5